Of course if you are seeking to find a relationship then chances are pretty strong that you are going to want someone that you have things in common with.

For example, if you are physically fit, like to work out and watch your diets then you are not going to want to try and pair up with someone that could care less about those things.

Your first call of action is to figure out what it is that you do want from a relationship. Sometimes the easiest way to accomplish this is to figure out first what it is that you do not want.

Make a written list of likes and dislikes as this is surely to give you a very keen observation of what it is that you have been focusing all of your attention and efforts on. Focus further on nothing but the positive that you have written down and keep pumping the universe with those positive thoughts.

If you resist what it is that you say that you want then you will not get it. In other words you can not say this is what I want and then resist it.

If you say you want this beautiful, fun loving new relationship but you focus upon the lack of it going to get the lack of it. Keep a visual going in your mind about your perfect partner just as if this person was already real, named and had a face. Again, remember to focus on only positive qualities and ignore any negative.

Your entire world is a reflection of what you focus on. If you don't like what is going on around you and who you seem to be attracting then you have to start changing your thought process on the inside in order to mend the outside.

Everything in the universe is made of energy; energy vibrates, and those vibrations attract like vibrations. As you vibrate, you attract. Do you approach each new love interest with an inner fear and expectation that they wont like you once they get to know her?

Are you braced for rejection before you even have the first date? If this sounds like you then you are vibrating rejection and that is what will happen each and every time. If you have relationships or not they are a reflection of what it is that you think and feel.

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