I've heard it said time and time again that if you are using any kind of sex toy like a dildo or vibrator you must be desperate for a man or you're just a sexual freak or pervert. You have to believe that such a statement is so absurd and outdated.

In this day and age we are so much more aware of our bodies and our sexuality. Just think about how often you hear about the use and necessity of sexual enhancement products that could help with your libido and erection. Sexual dysfunction products are advertised everywhere in magazine ads and on television.

Well for one reason think about it like this, if your penis doesn't function properly women know that it is not your fault it is just a common occurrence due to age, sickness or just a poor life style. With that said that is why it is so important having a double buddy to help you keep your spouse sexually satisfied. I call it a double buddy because you are one and your dildo or vibrator is the other. Not you're best friend or her co worker. You are penetrating her with a vibrator and causing her to climax and you still get to share that experience with her.

The second reason is that I like to group people who use sex toys into two groups. One kind is what we all have known about the ones that like to be tied up, whipped and then penetrated. This fetish is also known as bondage. This is an extreme kind of sexual play and activity. This is also out of the ordinary and by incorporating some sex toys into your lovemaking like a dildo, vibrator, anal dildo, or penis ring this doesn't mean that you are going to gravitate to that kind of extreme behavior.

The other group of men and women who enjoy playing with dildos and vibrators are just like you and me. This group is more reserved, shy, and proper in nature. Not wanting to be harmed yet like to kick things up a bit. We want something extra to our sexual experience, you know something out of the ordinary.

Thirdly, it doesn't mean that women are looking to replace you in bed. We still want and need you there for affection. An orgasm is a strong need to our bodies and our existence. This is why sex toys are important and a necessity for your relationship. You are the provider of many things in your household. Food, shelter and comfort. Now realize that your sexual health is just as important.

A vibrating dildo brings you to the climatic stage sooner than you could ever believe possible. Don't be self conscious or think it's a freakish act to admit you like it. That is why sex toys were made.

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