Women are more attracted to the exciting, unpredictable and challenging nature of men than anything else. However, most guys think that being nice, polite and caring is the solution to attract women into their life.

If you want to start meeting and dating women who simply can't get enough of you - or you want to ensure your current relationship lasts, then here are load of useful tips and techniques that you can use right away.

The first example is when a woman that you're dating calls you up and asks, "Were you thinking about me last night?". A predictable guy who doesn't offer women any challenge might reply with, "Yes...were you thinking about me?"

However a man that knows what attracts and interests women might reply with something like, "Totally...well, at least until about 6pm...but, then I got bored thinking about you...so I hired a stripper to come around and dance for me. Now I'm in love...I think...I don't know, it's crazy."

If his woman's name is Amanda and she asks, "Were you thinking about me last night?" he might reply with (in a playful tone) "Of courrrrrrse Julie...I mean Amanda! You're always in my thoughts...*cough*"

The next example is when you're out on a date. This works especially well on a second date, depending on how fun and spontaneous the woman is. You might be driving by a park and see some swings and a slide.

Stop the car. Go for a walk in the park, put her on the swing and give her a ride. It will bring back happy memories of her being an innocent little girl. If no-one is around, consider getting a little sexual while she sits on the swing.

Women love that sort of thing. It's unpredictable and her friends will be very jealous about the adventurous sex life she has with you.

The next example is if you've been together for a couple of months and things are going very well. Buy a small, decorated box and in it, put a bottle of massage oil and a hand-written note. Message for note: I know a great masseur. For an exclusive appointment, call _________ (your name) on _________ (your phone number).

Put this somewhere so she'll find it later on (e.g. under her pillow, in her underwear drawer, etc). See? It's easy. Disclaimer: Never let 'doing romantic things' become a predictable behavior from you. If you allow it to become predictable, she will take it for granted and may even come to expect it.

Next I want to share an amazing insight I had when I first started getting good with women. That is: Women love the feeling of anticipation. While we men want to get 'right down to it' and enjoy the experience of sex, women love anticipation and what it does to their experience.

This example is based around you kissing a girl on a first date. The technique is to be the first to pull away. Give her a smile and say something like, "Whoah...that's enough for you for now" and then start a conversation about something.

After a few minutes, kiss her again. This time, go a little further and maybe start kissing her on the neck to intensify the passion a little. Repeat this style of sexual teasing until you are both groping each other.

Building up the sexual tension like that will drive most women wild. However, also remember that the anticipation you've built previously (while on a date, watching a movie on the couch, kissing, etc) will sometimes be more than enough and a woman will be hot and horny to get started almost immediately. Remember to calibrate accordingly.

Now that I've given you that, let's look at the opposite. A guy who:

a) Immediately starts groping a woman in all of the obvious places.
b) Doesn't allow a woman to feel much anticipation about his touch.
c) Is only interested in advancing as far as possible, as fast as possible.

Women love to be thinking things like, "Hmm...why is he stopping? Maybe if I kiss his neck he'll be more into me? maybe I shouldn't have said what I said before? Maybe I should flirt a little more obviously...oooh, I want him to touch me there again."

Give her the succulent gift of anticipation and be the man she gets excited around. Don't be a pushover all the time, but do be a pushover sometimes. That way you aren't being predictable.

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