Anal sex can be a very scary thing if it is your first time and you are not properly prepared. This is why we have designed a list for you on the most important steps in getting ready for anal sex. Most importantly, when you think anal sex you should also think KY Jelly, they go hand in hand. Here are a few more steps to consider:

1. Preparation cleanup. Before having anal sex for the first time, many people worry about coming in contact with feces. This is perfectly normal because the sensation you get when your anus contracts is something that you have only felt before when going to the bathroom. To relax your mind, it is a good idea to go to the bathroom beforehand to clear out your bowels and even possibly take a shower too to be sure that you are clean. The shower is also a great place to experiment and prepare by slipping a finger in your anus.

2. Early Exercises. It is a smart idea, especially if you are feeling nervous, to do some anal exercises like clenching and unclenching your muscles. If you are nervous it makes your body and muscles by extension, very tense and tight. The tighter you are the more uncomfortable it will feel when you have anal sex.

3. Use a lubricant. It is important to understand that the anus is not something that self lubricates like the vagina, so you need to use some type of lubricant to help it along. KY Jelly is a great way to moisten your anal area and be sure that it does not suffer any tears or abrasions. After you have applied the KY Jelly to your anal area apply some to your finger as well and try sliding it in, this will tell you if you need more lubricant or not.

4. Familiarize Yourself. Familiarize yourself with your butt by exploring the outside area of hole and feeling around. There are two different areas of your sphincter: the outside which you can see and the inside which you must insert your finger in to feel.

5. Experiment. Take the time to experiment inserting fingers into your anus while clenching and unclenching your muscles so you can feel the difference. The more time you spend with your body, exploring it, the more comfortable you will feel when someone else is doing the same.

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