Self pleasure can be mutually beneficial for both people in the partnership. It can have an immediate effect when used for mutual masturbation. This is the when both people watch each other self love and the excitement of watching your partner can be very rewarding. It is instant gratification and can add another level to the love-making process. It is way of easily adding variety to a couples love life.

The art of self-pleasuring though can go further. The use of self pleasure by the individual can allow either partner to explore his/her own body in a way that will allow them to experiment and find out what they like.

An example maybe a women using a sex toy or through manual stimulation when self pleasuring can find out she likes stimulation of her clitoris and on further exploration and discovery work out what pressure or how a particular stroke achieves the best possible climax for her. A woman has several erogenous zones from her clitoris, g-spot, AFE Zone to her A-spot. If a woman self pleasure she can discover how best to work those zones to give herself the most pleasure. The process of self-love and the results are then passed onto the partner who will then have both a map and directions to be able to bring about the most wonderful orgasm by either fellatio or penetrative sex or by the use of a toy.

A woman may want to take it a step further and use a sex toy such a dildo for self pleasuring. The use if a dildo can increase the fun as for example a acrylic dildo being hard is good for g-spot stimulation can then be used by a partner in the love making process once the women has become comfortable with the feel of the aid when she used it during self-pleasure. The introduction of a toy into love-making can be slightly awkward and a little embarrassing; if however the woman is already comfortable with the toy then the introduction of the love aid is a lot easier and comfortable.

The main aim of couples during love-making is for both the partners to be able to get the most pleasure possible. We have shown in this article self pleasuring is a great tool for achieving this end. Trying love aids are worth the experimentation can be a rewarding experience for both partners. Self pleasure allows people to understand their own bodies and pass that information to a partner. Rewarding love-making is seeing your partner satisfied as much as achieving an orgasm yourself.

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Holly is part of The Weblife Collective that has a website what is the average size of a penis that is a valuable men's resource. The Collective also covers self-pleasure for women on a different site. Holly new website offers articles on self pleasure tips for women.